Pam Melius- Oheka Castle owner Gary Melius’ Wife



Meet 55-year-old Pamela M Melius, she is the lovely wife of property developer, Gary Melius owner of the Oheka Catsle –An Historic Mansion situated on the Gold Coast of Long Island between New York City and The Hamptons.

Pamela who is also found under Pamela M Robbscalia and Pamela Robb Melius but known just as Pam Melius had the scare of her life yesterday when her 69-year-old husband was shot in the face!

The NYpost reports Pam’s husband, 69-year-old Gary was shot in the head in an attempt assassination, outside his property yesterday.

Pam’s husband purchased the castle in 1984 for $1.5 million, at first everyone thought he was crazy for buying the property in its initial devastated state but Gary was convinced for its potential. Pam and Gary live in the sprawling estate along with their daughter Kelly, who is the Director of Sales at Oheka Castle, according to her LinkedIn.


Pam and Gary who owned the historic hotel and world class venue often host luxe weddings and gala celebrations. Exclusive & unforgettable, from the historic estate & formal gardens, to the elegant rooms, meticulous intuitive service, European ambience, & award winning cuisine. They own one of the finest venues in the world. The magnificent mansion is listed on the National Register for Historic Places and boasts 32 luxurious guestrooms & suites on the upper floors where guests can sleep like royalty.

According to a LinkedIn profile, Pam is the Administrative Assistant at Oheka Catering. She has also lived in Huntington, NY; Oyster Bay, NY; Carle Place, NY; Glen Head, NY; Levittown, NY and Williston Park, NY. She is related to Thomas Scalia, Vining Melius and Elena Melius. Records online also list Pam as the sole shareholder of OMC; her business background is predominantly real estate.

Pam and Gary have made $870,000 in campaign contributions since the 1990s — including $11,000 to Gov. Cuomo, $25,000 to state Comptroller Tom DiNapoli, both Democrats, and $5,000 to Republican state Senate Majority Leader Dean Skelos; which makes her kingmaker husband have deep ties to officials in the Democratic, Republican and Independence parties but is this an assassination reason???

We are glad to knot her husband was quickly treated and was listed in stable condition last night.